If I Had My Child To Raise Over Again

If I had my child to raise all over again,

I'd build self-esteem first, 
and the house later.

I'd finger-paint more, and point the finger less.

I would do less correcting 
and more connecting.

I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.

I'd take more hikes 
and fly more kites.

I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.

I would run through more fields 
and gaze at more stars.

I'd do more hugging and less tugging.

~Diane Loomans, from "If I Had My Child To Raise Over Again"